Persecutors, Victims, and Rescuers: How to Deal with Psychological Games Players
2h 6mBeginner2020-09-04
Authors

Chris Croft
Lecturer, Thought Leader, Project Management, Leadership
Course details
Psychological games players—those who actively seek to undermine, sabotage, and manipulate others—can be found in nearly every workplace and social gathering. This course was designed to help you spot these individuals and keep their mind games from getting under your skin. Instructor Chris Croft delves into the theory of why people play games, how these games work, and how to recognize when someone is playing one with you. He then covers the 20 most common games people play, demystifying manipulative techniques like "only joking" and "only trying to help." To wrap up, he shares six practical techniques for disarming games players and regaining your control over difficult situations. Tune in to equip yourself with tools and techniques for dealing with this challenging personality type.
Skills covered
Well-Being and Self-CarePersonal DevelopmentProfessional DevelopmentOne-Off
Concepts
0. Introduction
- 01 - Dealing with psychological game players
1. Theory Behind Games Players
- 02 - Parent, adult, child
- 03 - Okay and not okay
- 04 - Aggression
2. How Games Work
- 05 - What's a game
- 06 - Within families
- 07 - The three positions
- 08 - Why play games
3. The Top 20 Games
- 09 - Only trying to help
- 10 - Yesbut
- 11 - Blemish
- 12 - Let's you and them fight
- 13 - Harried
- 14 - Kick me
- 15 - Wooden leg
- 16 - Brown stamp collector
- 17 - Gold stamp collector
- 18 - Only joking
- 19 - Schlemiel
- 20 - What you made me do
- 21 - Now I've got you
- 22 - Grudges
- 23 - Sulking
- 24 - Ain't it awful
- 25 - If it weren't for you
- 26 - Maybe yes
- 27 - Mine's better
- 28 - Patronizing
- 29 - A few examples
4. Ways to Deal with Games
- 30 - Introduction
- 31 - Withdraw
- 32 - Live with it
- 33 - Remain adult
- 34 - Be assertive
- 35 - Exposing them
- 36 - Playing along
Conclusion
- 37 - Next steps